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Survivors Bibliography


Adams, Kenneth M. (1991). Silently Seduced . Deerfield Beach , FL : Health Communications.


Adams, Kenneth M. (2007). When He's Married to Mom . New York : Fireside Books (Simon and Schuster)


Angelica, Jade Christine (2002). We Are Not Alone: A Teenage Boy's Personal Account of Child Sexual Abuse from Disclosure through Prosecution and Treatment. New York : Haworth Maltreatment and Trauma Press


Bass, Ellen and Davis, Laura. (1988). The Courage To Heal: A Guide For Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse . New York : Harper and Row.


Bear, E., and Dimock, P. (1988). Adults Molested as Children: A Survivor's Manual for Women And Men. Orwell , VT : Safer Society Press.


Berendzen, R., and Palmer, L. (1993). Come Here: A Man Overcomes the Tragic Aftermath of Childhood Sexual Abuse . New York : Villard Books.


Bloom, S. (1997). Creating Sanctuary: Toward the Evolution of Sane Societies . New York : Routledge.


Bly, R. (1992). Iron John: A Book about Men . New York : Vintage.


Boyle, P. (1994 ). Scout's Honor: Sexual Abuse in America's Most Trusted Institution . Rocklin , CA : Prima.


Browne, Marie, with Browne, Marlene (2007). If the Man You Love Was Abused . Avon , MA : Adams Media.


Brodie, Faithe (1992a). When the Other Woman Is His Mother: A Guide to Identify Your Mate's Child Abuse, Incest, and Dissociation . Tacoma WA : Winged Eagle Press


Brodie, Faithe (1992b). When the Other Woman Is His Mother: Boys and Incest Victims and Male Multiple Personality Disorder . Tacoma WA : Winged Eagle Press


Callaghan, Linda (2003). Inrage: Healing the Hidden Rage of Child Sexual Abuse . Long Branch , NJ : Tyborne Hill Publishers


Carnes, Patrick. (1983). Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction . Minneapolis : Compcare.


Carnes, Patrick. (1989). Contrary to Love. Minneapolis : Compcare.


Carnes, Patrick (1991). Don't Call It Love: Recovery from Sex Addiction . New York : Bantam


Davis, Laura. (1991). Allies In Healing: When The Person You Love Was Sexually Abused As A Child . New York : Harper Perennial.


Davis, Laura. (1990). The Courage to Heal Workbook (for men and women). New York : Harper and Row.


De Beixedon,Yvette (1995). Lovers and Survivors: A Partner's Guide to Living With and Loving a Sexual Abuse Survivor . Bandon , OR : Robert D. Reed Publishers.


De Milly, Walter (1999). In My Father's Arms: A True Story of Incest . Univ of Wisconsin Press


Engel, Beverly (2004). Breaking the Cycle of Abuse: How to Move Beyond Your Past to Create an Abuse-Free Future . Hoboken , NJ : John Wiley and Sons.


Estrada, H. (1990). Recovery For Male Victims Of Child Sexual Abuse. Santa Fe , NM : Red Rabbit Press.


Forward, Susan and Craig, Buck. (1978). Betrayal of Innocence: Incest and Its Devastation . New York : Penguin.


Fuentes, L. A. (Ed.). (1995). Sexual Abuse In Nine North American Cultures . Thousand Oaks , CA : Sage.


Gartner, R. B. (1999a). Betrayed as Boys: Psychodynamic Treatment of Sexually Abused Men . New York : Guilford Press.


Gartner, R. B. (1999b), Cinematic depictions of boyhood sexual victimization. Gender and Psychoanalysis , 4:253-289 (available ay


Gartner, R. B. (2005). Beyond Betrayal: Taking Charge of Your Life after Boyhood Sexual Abuse . Hoboken , NJ : John Wiley and Sons


Gil, Eliana. (1983). Outgrowing the Pain: A Book For and About Adults Abused As Children . San Francisco : Launch.


Gil, Eliana. (1992). Outgrowing the Pain: A Book for Spouses and Partners of Adults Abused as Children. New York : Dell Publishing.


Graber, Ken (1991). Ghosts in the Bedroom: A Guide for Partners of Incest Survivors . Health Communications


Grubman-Black, Stephen (1990, 2nd edition 2002). Broken Boys/Mending Men . Caldwell , NJ : Blackburn Press


Hansen, Paul (1991) . Survivors and Partners: Healing the Relationships of Sexual Abuse Survivors . Longmont , CO : Heron Hill.


Heim, Scott (1995). Mysterious Skin . New York : HarperCollins


Henton, D., and McCann, D. (1995). Boys Don't Cry: The Struggle for Justice and Healing In Canada's Biggest Sex Abuse Scandal . Toronto : McClelland and Stewart.


Hoffman, Richard (1995). Half the House . San Diego : Harcourt Brace


Hope and Recovery: A 12-Step Guide for Healing from Compulsive Sexual Behavior (1987). Center City , MN : Hazelden


Hopkins, B. (1993, Fall). A question of child abuse. Raritan , pp. 33-55.


Hopkins, B. (2004) A boy's story. ACM, pp. 140-153


Hunter, Mic. (1990a). Abused Boys: The Neglected Victims Of Sexual Abuse . New York : Lexington Books.


Hunter, Mic. (1990b). The First Step For People in Relationships With Sex Addicts: A Workbook For Recover y. Minneapolis , MN : Compcare Publishers.


Hunter, Mic. (1992). Joyous Sexuality: Healing From Family Sexual Dysfunction. Minneapolis , MN : Comp Care Publishers.


King, Neal (1995). Speaking Our Truth: Voices of Courage and Healing for Male Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse. New York : HarperPerennial Library


Kuhn, Judy, ed. (2000). In Cabin Six: An Anthology of Poetry by Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse . Atascadero , CA : Impact Publishing


La Valle, John (1996). Everything You Need to Know When You Are the Male Survivor of Rape or Sexual Assault . New York : The Rosen Company


Lee, John. (1987). The Flying Boy: Healing The Wounded Man . Deerfield Beach , FL : Health Communications, Inc.


Levine, Robert Barry (1996). When You Are the Partner of a Rape or Incest Survivor : A Workbook for You . Resource Publications


Lew, Mike (1988). Victims No Longer: Men Recovering from Incest and Other Sexual Child Abuse. New York : Harper and Row. 2nd ed. (2004), Victims No Longer: The Classic Guide for Men Recovering from Sexual Child Abuse New York : HarperCollins


Lew, Mike (2000) Leaping upon the Mountains : Men Proclaiming Victory over Sexual Child Abuse . North Atlantic Books


Linden , Paul (2001). Winning is Healing: Body Awareness and Empowerment for Abuse Survivors . ebook available at


Linden , Paul (2003). Reach Out: Body Awareness Training For Peacemaking - Five Easy Lessons. ebook available at (a free download).


Linden , Paul (2004 ). Winning is Healing Basics: An Introduction to Body Awareness and Empowerment for Abuse Survivors . ebook available at


Love, Patricia (1990). The Emotional Incest Syndrome . New York : Bantam


Loving in Fear: An Anthology of Lesbian and Gay Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse. (1991). Toronto : Queer Press.


Maltz, Wendy. (1991). The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide For Survivors Of Sexual Abuse . New York : Harper Collins Publishers.


Maltz, Wendy and Holman, Beverly. (1987). Incest and Sexuality: A Guide to Understanding and Healing . Lexington , MA : Lexington Books.


McEvoy, Alan, Brookings, Jeff, and Rollo, Debbie, eds. (1999). If He Is Raped: A Guidebook for Parents, Mates, and Friends . Holmes Beach , FL : Learning Publications.


McMullen, Richie. (1990). Male Rape: Breaking the Silence on the Last Taboo . London : The Gay Men's Press.


Meth, Richard, Pasick, Robert, (1990). Men in Therapy: The Challenge of Change . New York : Guilford Press.


Miletski, H. (1997). Mother-Son Incest: The Unthinkable Broken Taboo . Brandon , VT : Safer Society Press.


Miller, Alice. (1981). The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self. New York : Basic Books.


Miller, Alice. (1983). For Your Own Good: Hidden Cruelty in Child-Rearing and the Roots of Violence . New York : Farrar and Straus.


Miller, Alice. (1984). Thou Shalt Not Be Aware: Society's Betrayal of the Child . New York : New American Library.


Moran, Martin (2005). The Tricky Part: One Boy's Fall from Trespass into Grace . Boston : Beacon Press.


Mura, David. (1987). A Male Grief: Notes on Pornography and Addiction. Minneapolis : Milkweed Editions.


Napier-Hemy, John (1991). When Boys Have Been Sexually Abused: A Guide for Young Boys = Les Jeunes Garcons Victimes De Violence Sexuelle: Guide A L'intention des Jeunes Garcons. Vancouver : Incest and Sexual Abuse Centre.



Palmer, Tink and Wootliff, Jeremy (2001). No Son of Mine!: Children Abused through Prostitution . Ilford, Essex , UK : Barnardo's (video and report).


Pollack, William (1998 ). Real Boys: Rescuing Our Sons from the Myths of Boyhood. New York : Random House


Real, Terrence (1997). I Don't Want To Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression. New York : Scribner's


Ryan, M. (1995). Secret Life . New York : Vintage.


Sanders, Timothy. (1992). Male Survivors: A 12-Step Recovery Program For Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse . Freedom, CA: Crossing Press.


Scarce, M. (1997). Male on Male Rape: The Hidden Toll of Stigma and Shame . New York : Insight Books (Plenum Press).


Sonkin, Daniel Jay (1998). Wounded Boys Heroic Men: A Man's Guide to Recovering from Child Abuse . Adams Media Corporation


Thomas, T. (1989). Men Surviving Incest . Walnut Creek , CA : Launch Press.


Tobin, Rod~(1999). Alone and Forgotten: The Sexually Abused Man . Carp:ON: Creative Bound.


Wiehe, V. (1996). The Brother-Sister Hurt: Recognizing the Effects of Sibling Abuse. Brandon , VT : Safer Society Press.


Wright, Leslie, Loiselle, Mindy, Bear, Euan, eds. (1999 ). Back on Track: Boys Dealing with Sexual Abuse. Brandon , VT : Safer Society Press.